Now that I have been in Bhutan,
living and working, I am beginning to have a few things to relate besides
travel commentary. Last Sunday I walked from here to the next village via the
old “road”. This is a route, probably hundreds of years old, which was the main
access through Gaselo to the next Village. It is well laid out, an efficient
traverse along one side of the gorge and out along the opposite slope. Only a
few miles but beautiful. In many places there are old stones placed as uneven
stairs or stepping stones, easy to use and better than slip sliding in the mud
and dirt. The tiny villages are scattered about everywhere there is a bit of
arable land. Often quite steep but terraced with some gentle spots for
building. The houses of the villages do not appear to have any pattern. There
is enough open space between to walk, sometimes areas that look almost lawn
like. A bit like a nice campground with tents scattered about. It a little
disconcerting for us who live in the realm of private property who can be
worried about walking where we should not. Seems as though everywhere here one
is welcome to pass wherever it looks good.
This fits with the incredible communal
sociability of the Bhutanese. They are in and out of each other’s places all
the time. Very few secrets of any kind. Salary is handed out and discussed
openly. Students standings and exam results from last year are posted. Offenses
at school can be punished by the students doing prostrations in front of the
whole school during morning assembly. Everyone is open and accepting of all
that goes on around them. The Bhutanese hold in very high regard a respect for
the earth and all its inhabitants but this does not include in the least the
American idea of respect for privacy. Although Bhutanese put a padlock on
everything and tell you to be careful because not everyone is to be trusted the
doors are generally not very secure and in general people are very trusting.
Apparently people will take things if they are available, sort of like finders
keepers, but a simple lock is a reminder to let things be. In general it is a
very honest and open society that wants to get along and do well. I very much
like this aspect of the culture as it does lead me to understand that people in
larger groups can live so openly. Of course a small, cohesive, homogenous society
like the Bhutanese is much more conducive to this way of life than a huge,
incredibly varied and diverse society like we have in the US.
Love this post! I definitely agree on the difference of privacy, even here in Canada it's the same. Everyone is so secretive, I think we could learn a lot of lessons from Bhutan. Very nice pictures!
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